The pain we experience in attempting to grow in educational systems that may not exactly be good for us in the end can be good for us if we ride out the storm
The love of God provides for us in many ways - most importantly in covers our transgression past present and future at moment of faith, that is why apostle paul got upset when people distorted this fact
We promise and we sometimes are not able to complete our commitment. God promises are different. The Real problem is when we think God's promises are like our promises. And Since we have all been hurt we are not able to trust.