We feel so obligated to love our neighbor at all costs but what if we took a step back and saw their depravity and then loved them instead of idolizing them hate them, hate their wickedness! Then love.
We have all experience things yet we tend to think we are not important yet no one has gone through what you have lived and has brought your pedigree to this point
The need to rightfully divide the word is essential - otherwise you will teach a gospel of works ie repentance which is also poorly defined word to boot